Children in the Home
Business Environment
Copyright © Stone Evans, The
Home Biz Guy
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Operating a home business is seldom easy and
interruptions come in all shapes, sizes and forms.
Between the family, friends and neighbors who call
or come by, and the telemarketers who insist on
ringing your number off the hook, getting through
the workday can be a real challenge.
When
you introduce children into the home office
environment, your productivity and patience can be
seriously tested.
For
example, right now my three-year old daughter is
pulling on my shirt and begging me to read her a
story. Clearly, Im in the middle of something
important here, but how can I say no to those eyes?
Ill be right back...
Ok,
that wasnt so bad was it? Shes happy, Im happy
(having bonded with my daughter) and now Im back to
continue my conversation with you :-) Whats the
lesson here? Flexibility is a major key to balancing
your home business priorities with your familys
needs.
I can
tell you from first-hand experience that maintaining
a deep level of concentration on work in a home
business for long periods of time is next to
impossible. Naptime does offer some reprieve, but
any break from the kids is usually short lived.
Even
with older children, summertime introduces new
challenges with kids running in and out of the house
all throughout the day.
I
would like to share with you some of the tips I have
discovered to help manage your home office with
children in your midst. Since children of different
ages pose different challenges, I will present my
tips in terms of age groups.
OLDER CHILDREN AND TEENS
We
will look at older children first since they pose
the least challenge to our work productivity.
Children, who are old enough to understand the idea
of schedules and chores, are old enough to
understand the needs of your home business. Explain
to your children that you do your work at home so
that you can be near them when they need you. But
also be sure they understand that you must do your
work so that you will have the money necessary to
keep your house, feed the family and to provide them
with money for entertainment.
Once
your children understand the necessity of your work,
then outline a work schedule and explain it to them.
Do make sure they understand that emergencies are
definitely an acceptable reason to interrupt your
work. Then make sure they understand that between
hours x and y, you will be doing work --- and then
hold them to respecting your schedule.
INFANTS
Infants will never understand your needs for work.
But fortunately, babies do well under a schedule or
routine. Instead of expecting your child to work
around your schedule, schedule your work around the
needs of your baby.
It is
simple. Babies eat, sleep and poop. Sometimes they
play. Fortunately, babies sleep more than they do
anything else.
Naptime offers the best advantage for getting your
work done. Get your baby into a routine of eat,
sleep and play, and you will experience unexpected
levels of productivity.
TODDLERS
If
you have a toddler running around the house while
you are operating your home business, then you may
find that your hair turning gray or disappearing
altogether. But, gray hair is a sign of character,
right. ;-)
I am
venturing to guess that the person who devised the
door lock for the inside of the house did so because
he had toddlers in his own home. Inside door locks
should only be utilized when you are making that
important phone call and your toddler is screaming
for your attention. At all other times, your door
should remain unlocked with your door open.
Develop a routine with your children for meal times,
naptimes, and play times. Work these times into your
work schedule and adhere to them. If you fail to
keep appointments with your children, your children
will have less respect for your work and do more to
prevent you from the completion of your work.
Don't
be afraid to let your children sit in your lap while
you are working. It helps them to feel wanted and it
helps them to be a part of your daily life. There
are times when it is okay for them to be sitting in
your lap while you work, and at other times you need
them out of your lap. Don't be afraid to tell them
to get down and go play or read a book so that you
can resume your work.
Permit your children to have their toys in your
office. Often they will sit contently and play while
you work. Just knowing you are near is enough to
keep them happy.
Be
prepared to take an hourly break to deal with your
toddler. Try to do potty breaks at your hourly break
and to do drink refills. This can help your child
grow into a routine that will work well with your
home business. At each break, spend a few minutes
with your child giving hugs and kisses and talking
with your child about what he or she wants to talk
about.
Toddlers don't always do well with the routine, so
be prepared to take a few minutes when needed to
give the attention that your child so desperately
needs in the moment.
IN CONCLUSION
I
hope these tips serve to help you in the challenge
of operating a successful home business.
My
home business permits me to fulfill my financial
obligations *AND* see my children grow up. I would
never contemplate trading my home business for
another kind of business. Even with the added
challenges of dealing with toddlers in my home
office, the upsides far outweigh the downsides.
Growing my own home business with children around
has definitely given me a new respect for all people
who successfully run a home business with kids in
the work environment. I tip my hat to you... You
deserve it!